|Re: Random question . . .|
Subject: Re: Random question . . .
by KTC on 2011/9/27 4:18:42
You sound like a battered person with an abusive partner.
The abuse, the guilt for leaving, the power play, the cutting off yourself from friends/family who disagree, etc. I assume there was some degree of depression.
I strongly recommend cutting all ties with such a manipulative person until you're more stable, financially, emotionally, and mentally. Do not talk to her while you're still emotionally unsteady and susceptible to her ways. Get your life, emotions, and mind in order so that if she does try to trick you, you're in a better state to resist.
Also, I recommend counseling if you're having trouble with the mentally/emotionally part. Here's a Link about some options.
Note: I am NOT calling you a crazy person or anything like that. However, you're not in the best shape to handle her so start by 'fixing' yourself first.