In my school's annual function's western dance, there's a move in which I've to do leg stretch

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^ Somewhat like this, It's just that I've to do it on the ground not the air. So... At my back, some hostelers are there, who hate me. They, like, wanna spoil my dance, since I'm the center of attraction in it. They kicked me on the back today, which I was doing the leg spread move. 3: What should I do?

Since they're hostelers, I cannot do violence- They'll complain to their warden, who shall gimme a lecture. The teachers don't care, they call these child-fights, and say solve them yourself, same is with the counselor. I told my parents, they said sort it out yourself, we're not stepping in. Great! My life's a horror movie. 3:

You might want to try talking to the people who are bullying you. It's not right for them to be hurting you, even if they're jealous.

Also, your post is a bit hard to understand. Do you mean that this 'dance' is like a performance, or what? Because if it is a recital/performance type thing, it definitely is the teacher's problem, too, since they're ruining the dance by bullying you.

Also, the pic that you provided shows someone who's on the ground doing a leg stretch. Did you mean that you're supposed to do that by kicking your leg up or something? It would certainly make more sense, since they couldn't really kick you if your back was on the ground.

Anyways, the bullying here isn't just your problem. Try to figure out why they're bullying you, but don't fight back, because that'll just make it worse! You definitely don't need people trying to hurt you while you're dancing, so you might want to find someone who you can talk to that will listen to your problem and try to help you, like a RL friend.

I've talked, yelled, screamed. The girls in my school are ignorant. 3; Stubborn people. Also they're a group of 5 girls.

It's a western dance performance, on J-Lo's On the floor, In which I'm acting as J-Lo. It is for the annual function of our school.

XD No. I've to leg stretch on the ground. I was just showing an example I found.

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Something like this, but I've to open my legs more.

They're no technically bullying me. Just becoming jealous, that I got the main role. T'what, I can't fight back. I've told a friend, but she can't suggest me anything. 3:

Yelling and screaming isn't going to solve anything. Bullies are trying to get a rise out of you. If you yell and scream, then you're doing what they want.

Try talking to them. But keep it calm. If talking doesn't work, then just ignore them. It's a bit harder to do if they're being physical, but it still can be done.

If they physically kicked you in the back, then the teacher should be chastising them. If there are rules at your school against fights (which there should be), then they should be punished. Just because you're young doesn't mean they should ignore it when people bully you.

The term everyone's looking for is the Splits--that's the move she's describing.

Though I do believe you are talking about a performance. I believe they cannot bother you during the actual performance since having them kick you while performing is unthinkable.

However, I'm assuming you're talking about practices, and that is when they supposedly abuse you. There must be a supervising instructor there and if she didn't see it maybe that's why they supposedly don't care--they didn't see it happening. If instructors do not care for the students, then what kind of learning institution would that be--No, I surmise the instructors do care, just that you need to approach them in a proper manner and have proof--maybe have people testify that they saw said girls kicking you.

And I believe the counselor should be of help. Before in another topic you said they helped you with your supposed lesbian problem. The lesbian problem and this are both not too different from each other in that both are abusive to you in some way. That should mean that the counselor will help--they helped you the first time and they should do so again.

I agree with Haneul, if the teachers don't care that your being abused your school has got to be breaking some major rules. Also, do you practice alone or what...?

@Mopiece: I've tried ignoring them. It doesn't work, I'm trying to concentrate on my dance, rather than them, but it's still not helping.

@Magus: There are no such rules. 3:
As I said in the other thread, my school's a Mad House.

@Han: Right, the splits, we call it the Jazz Spread here, but that's not the right term.

It's not gonna be a problem during the performance, but I'm having trouble practicing, which'll make the performance weak.

I agree to that. But the thing: we practice alone, the teachers don't teach me, but the background dancers. There's only one girl from the elder class, who's always SMS-ing from her phone. Maybeeee... If I get proof....

The counselor doesn't help with this stuff. Our whole school is a 'Solve your fights & bully problems yourself!'

@Pinky-chan: The principal doesn't care either. 3:

Alone or what? What do you mean by that question?

I meant do you all practice in one big room together, get private practice rooms, what? Yeah, that wasn't very clear, was it...I'm not very familiar to, er, what is it you do, anyway? Is it gymnastics or dancing or what?

One big room. Gymnastics + Dancing.

I think Mopiece is saying ignoring them for some time until they'll give up, An.

But wait, did you ever say that this isn't bullying, but just some girls got jealous and such?
If that's what happening, I assume that those girls would only have chance to hurt you between practices, no?

My opinion if you don't want to be hurt anymore, maybe taking practices alone with/out the background dancers so you won't have bad performance.
Or at other hand, you might want to quit the performance. And if you do, then the girls will not bother with you.

Shaddy, I said that I'm ignoring them till now.

Yes. I said That! Yeah... But I'm not being able to practice properly.

That's not possible, I need them, We make a pyramid in one step. I need them for that step.

I've already got the dress made. Plus, the annual function is just 1 week later.

Try practicing moves you can do alone.

If you say so, then I could almost say you can't help with it. You want to continue, then take the risk. Just to encourage you, once it is over, they shall not bother with you anymore.

That I do. But most are with others.

Awwwwww! 3; I'll've to... They might bother, they might not. I'm not sure. Hostelers aren't trustable.
They might wanna get their revenge later.

This is this, that is that.

I mean, if they hurt you for being jealous you got a main role, then I think they will eventually stop when it's over. But if they do continue to do so after the performances, it will be another story.

And what do you mean with revenge? O_o
Did you do something to them?

No rules against fighting? No punishment for bullies? Then that's not a good school at all. If your parents don't know about that, you should tell them. If your parents do know, why'd they send you to a school like that?

@An- Speaking as someone who can understand the background of the schooling system of the subcontinent, I think you're over complicating the matter.
Don't call it jealousy or bullying. It never works. Go and complain that she physically kicked you. Take your friends and make them lie if you have to, that they saw her hitting you

@Shady: I think so, you're right...

Revenge? Maybeeeeee..... I just couldn't stay quite....

@Magus: They're technically not bullying me, just trying to make me quit the main role.

My parents do know. Let me quote what I said in the other thread.


1. It's the 1st best girls school in India. And 2nd Best school in India.
2. It offers a lot of opportunities.
3. It has a big campus.
4. It has the latest technology.
And so on the list goes. x_x

@theone- I'll try... >_> Nobody except Riya...

The list thing. I had the same list for the reason I was in the school I was in.

Bribe them, corruption rocks. 1 Samosa or Roll usually does the trick

.-. See? Parents give a lot of trouble.

It does. XD XD Uh-huh. Well... *knows some food-lovers* THANKS A LOT THEONE! *goes off to find food*

Btw, wait for locking the thread, dunn do it now. It mightn't work.